On Little Scraps of Paper

A place to share my writing

Our Odes on the Spinning Stool

My sister and I attended  a writing workshop where we were challenged to write an "ode" on an object from our childhood.  We both began writing immediately and wrote until the time was up. Only then did we realize that we had chosen the same object from our childhood.

Ode to the Spinning Stool by Carol Applegarth Stearns

How the old spinning stool always took the prominent place in the center of the large country kitchen of the ranch home.

How my Mother would sit on it looking out the east window as she did the dishes or peeled potatoes.

How my Mother would sit on the old spinning stool stirring the pot as she prepared the family dinner.
For the family who spent their time around the dinner table – telling stories and laughing.

How after many years, the old stool lost its cover, but, oh how it could still spin.

How the grandchildren sprawled on their bellies on top of the old stool and would spin until they got dizzy and fell off.

For my Mother who sat on the old spinning stool looking out the west window of the little home in town and wonder how 90 years could pass so quickly.

Ode to Mother's Spinning Stool by Helen Applegarth McConnell

I don't remember the arrival of Mother's spinning stool but I remember watching her sit on its cushioned seat as she washed dishes in the yellow kitchen of the ranch house where I grew up. 

I remember the spinning stool in the corner supporting the pyramid of metal cream cans. I remember the clatter of those cans in the dark when my sister bumped the spinning stool as we came home from a teen dance. 

I remember watching Mother sitting on it's fraying cushioned seat washing dishes in the ever changing kitchen of the house they moved to while I was in college. I remember my daughter poking a finger through the crumbling cushion while the spinning stool was spinning which pinched her finger severely. 

I remember watching Mother washing dishes sitting on a towel covering the bare metal seat of the spinning stool in the tiny kitchen of their house in town. 

I gave the spinning stool to one of Mother's young granddaughters. She plans to recover it.

In the Haymow

A Childhood Place: The Haymow
I remember the haymow in the old white barn at the south place.
In spring the hay stored there was coarse and dry. My sister and I made big “nests” where we could read or daydream or cuddle the kittens whose mothers had made smaller nests in the back sides of the hay piles.
In summer there was very little hay there. It was brittle and dusty and the sun shining through the high, dirty window created long, sparkling shafts of light – perfect for day dreaming on a hot summer afternoon.
By autumn the haymow was packed with fresh clean hay. The fragrant scent of the hay was mingled with the sweat of those filling the mow. There was only a small space around the top of the ladder to lounge against the tall piles of hay.
In winter the haymow was cold. We quickly pushed the hay through the holes to the mangers below so we could run back to the warm house and lounge by the Warm Morning stove.

(Excerpted from Class Exercise)

Have you ever?

Have you ever?


Have you ever watched a life unravel?
You notice it first around the edges as details slip between the threads.
      The checkbook no longer balances.
      Accidents happen and there are no explanations.
      Appointments are forgotten and recipes fail.
       Familiar faces and their stories become strange.
       Your loved one slowly fades away.
       Connections are broken.
        Hugs are exchanged without warmth.
        Conversation is like weaving without a loom.
        Mind and hands, once busy with plans and projects, now fidget with a string.
Have you ever watched a life unravel?  I have.  Alzheimer's is a ruthless ripper, tearing great holes in the fabric of life.

Chickens and Ducks

The Mother Instinct aka Chickens and Ducks


One year Mother decided to raise some ducks. I don't know why. She bought some Muscovy eggs and gave them to one of the setting hens. I'm sure the hen was quite confused when Mother would lift her off the nest two or three times a day, roll each of the eggs over and then sprinkle them with water. In due time the poor mother hen had a bunch of little funny looking “chicks.” She took good care of them teaching them to forage and scratch for seeds and bugs they couldn't pick up because their “beaks” were in fact bills.

One day my sister and I heard a loud, frantic squawking coming from the area of the pond created by the overflow of the barnyard windmill and tank. Thinking it was probably a water snake threatening the ducklings, we ran to the rescue.

We found the hen frantically running along the muddy edge of the pond as her babies cavorted happily in the water. Eventually, the babies returned to her side and dutifully followed her back to the chicken house. This was repeated daily for several weeks.

Years later, I was witness to the opposite scenario. I had finished a meeting with the ranchwife and was getting into my car when she said, “Watch this.” A duck had hatched a chicken egg. She was leading her baby to the hydrant in the barnyard. The hydrant was set to drip into a shallow pan so that small animals in the barnyard always had fresh water. The mother took a long drink and then got into the pan getting herself wet all over. Then she shook herself off and proceeded to try to push her baby into the pan. The chick protested loudly and ran away from the pan.

Mothering is universal. With my adopted children I have found myself in both these incidents.

Sisters by Marriage

SISTERS BY MARRIAGE

Sisters by marriage;
Friends by choice.
Sharing family, name
And heritage.

Sisters by marriage,
Friends by choice.
Two or three mothers
All those cousins.

Sisters by marriage,
Friends by choice.
Let's meet at the park
It'll be fun.

Sisters by marriage,
Friends by choice.
Let's all go shopping,
My turn to drive.

Sisters by marriage,
Friends by choice.
Thanksgiving at my house,
Easter at yours.

Sisters by marriage,
Friends by choice.
Chokecherries are ripe
Jelly for all.

Sisters by marriage,
Friends by choice.
Sharing laughter and tears,
Joys and fears.

Sisters by marriage;
Friends by choice.
Sharing family, name
And heritage.
(Dedicated to my Mother, Aunt Max and Aunt Jesse and Lauretta, Kathryn and Clara May.)